Post # 16
I HATE people that do that. I already plan on deleting any comments like that from all future announcements (pregnancy, baby, whatever). We had an aunt post a cousin’s birth announcment as soon as she got the text that was sent just to family. My husband PMed her and was like “that was super shitty of you and this is why we don’t tell you shit”.
Darling Husband is defending the family member because she’s a life train wreck and didn’t mean to piss me off. I have less sympathy for grown adults that don’t know how to behave (I have a few on my side too and get equally annoyed with mine too). People make mistakes, but adults own them and apologize when the upset someone – even if it wasn’t intentional. I said it’s his family member, but until she apologizes to us for going around our back to get information we clearly weren’t ready to tell her I’m done with her. No more messages, no photos, nothing. She’s cut off from the info train.
Post # 17
When my Maid/Matron of Honor got pregant, she didn’t tell any of the grandparents until she was six months pregant because she knew they was tell people before she and her bf were ready to share lol. But honestly that is so frustating, Im sorry op. Yeah, just don’t tell her about that kind of stuff in the future.
Post # 18
Thank you all for not saying I’m just a crazy hormonal overreacting preggo. I at least wish they didn’t TELL me that the news was blabbed – would it be that hard to pretend to be excited and surprised in a few more weeks when I told them myself?!