(Closed) MIL Help

posted 5 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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3302 posts
Sugar bee

If you have told her enough times that you won’t and why not, then I would just ignore her at this point. What is the point of rehashing- she is probably just venting out loud about your choice. Unless she asks you a question directly, just don’t respond and look at her blank faced

Post # 4
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1562 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

@armychica06:  Agree.  She has been told, what decisions have been made are done.  

Post # 5
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6 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: February 2013

I agree, I would just ignore it.  I’ve similar problems with my FMIL where we’ve told her the same thing over and over and yet she still tries to change our minds about things.  It will just stress you out to keep trying to persuade her, so just try to just ignore and keep on going…I know it’s hard though!

Post # 6
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686 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

she sounds just like my MIL just ignore it its your day not hers and you can do what you want.. in the end things arent going to go her way she she just has to suck it up and deal with it.. why are they so interfering!

Post # 7
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206 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I’m sorry you have to deal with that! It’s hard to understand why family can’t accept the choices that you make! We, too, chose to not have children and it does seem controversial, seems like you’ll step on toes with at least one person. BUT remember, it is your day, your decisions, your choices, point blank. The day will run smoothly and maybe your FMIL will appreciate the no kids rule when the day comes. But either way, you are making decisions based on what you want, no one else. Hope this helped!

Post # 8
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433 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

@bella91182:  

Just ignore her, passive aggro comments are all she has at this point. Just pretend like you didn’t even hear her, not worth getting upset over.

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