(Closed) Mildly annoyed…teensy vent

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Would you be a little hurt/annoyed if this happened to you?
    Yes, but majorly annoyed/hurt : (11 votes)
    16 %
    Yes, a little : (23 votes)
    34 %
    Not really : (32 votes)
    47 %
    Other (whatever "other" would be ;P) : (2 votes)
    3 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    5657 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: February 2012

    I wouldn’t call her out on it or anything (you’re right to be the better person)… but I don’t think I’d be very willing to hang out with someone who got upset I was engaged first, accused me of trying to one up them and then called me on my wedding day to talk to me about her wedding plans. That doesn’t sound like someone I would consider a friend.

    Post # 5
    Member
    5921 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    Very, very annoying.  I have a friend who got engaged recently, and even though my wedding is less than three weeks away, no matter what we start talking about, it always goes back to her wedding and how stressed she is, even though it is almost a year away.  Eventually I stopped feeding into it, you know?  She would send me pictures of ideas and ask for my help, and I flat out told her that while I was excited for her and would love to help, I needed to get through mine first. I haven’t heard a word since then.  I said it really nicely, but I mean, damn.  Come on! LOL.

    Post # 7
    Member
    7777 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    Thats super bitchy and annoying. Honestly, is this girl worth dealing with all this for? She sounds immature, catty and very self-centered. Maybe her actions are just one way that the universe is telling you that you are better off without her. Id drop that baby like a hot potato. I dont deal with people causing drama in my life.

    Post # 8
    Member
    6015 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: March 2012

    If she does this all the time, and has been nasty to you … why is she a friend?  

    Post # 10
    Member
    687 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    That is really rude of her!  Doesn’t sound like she’s a great friend… I wouldn’t bother calling her out if it’s going to cause more drama. Some people just aren’t worth dealing with — they’ll always function in they’re own little world. 🙂 Pat yourself on the back for being the bigger person, that is tough to do sometime!!

    Post # 12
    Member
    565 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2011

    that was extremly rude of her, and it sounds like she didn’t even come to your wedding, either, but had time to call you and talk about herself?  i don’t think she sounds like a very good “friend” to me…

    Post # 14
    Member
    57 posts
    Worker bee

    No, don’t call her.  Just ignore her and eventually she will go away.  That’s how I usually get rid of that type of friend.  Eventually they get the hint.  Plus, this is just my opinion, but she seems a bit jealous of you. 

    Post # 16
    Member
    987 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2009

    happy ending 🙂

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