(Closed) Military? Waiting?

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

As a military wife, my first piece of advice is not to rush into marriage. I’ve seen many couples get married after a few months to end up divorced. Why? The non-military spouse wasn’t ready for the committment of moving and being alone. Also, don’t get married just to collect benefits. If he’s serious about staying in and you’re serious about getting married, sit down and talk to him directly. Don’t beat around the bush: be honest and tell him where you stand.

Yes, it will suck when he’s gone for months at a time. You will be lonely. But you will get through it. If he’s the one for you, y’all will find a way to make it work. I wish y’all the best of luck!

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