Mind Blown – Need Advice on How to React to Pal's Hubby Going Nuts

posted 5 months ago in The Lounge
Post # 46
1503 posts
Bumble bee

Someone ELI5 please. Is this supposed to be a photo of his wife’s undies? What a jackass.

Post # 47
163 posts
Blushing bee


Post # 48
146 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2020

this is ridiculous. I don’t think she will answer right away 

Post # 49
948 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2019 - City, State

She may not get back to you. She has probulary already asked her nasty ass husband if his phone was hacked and he asked why and she told him you text her so he went back to look at his texts and panicked. Probulary made up some excuse and said his friend used his phone blah blah blah and I bet he erased the messages. What you should have done was call her right away ( you never know if her husband was sitting next to her when she got the message) and tell her what happend and if nasty ass husband was there even better. Then send the pictures to her. Either way she may or may not believe you but in the end she that’s her choice. Chances are he will make up a great excuse and they will be together forever. You start a relationship as a cheater and not continue being one. 

Post # 51
9737 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

Conspiracy theory: he saved his side chick/mistresses contact info under your name to avoid suspicion if his wife looks at his phone contact list. 

Post # 52
827 posts
Busy bee

slomotion :  I loves me a good conspiracy theory 🙂 


If it was just the cheating, I’d be inclined to stay out of it since she was once the mistress….karma and all that stuff. BUT taking a photo of her period stained panties and sharing them is a violation on a whole other level and no way would I trust living with someone like this. That is grossly disrespectful and such an invasion of her privacy. I’d kick this dude to the curb so fast. I know it’s easy to knee-jerk to ‘leave him!’ on a website, but this douchebag seriously does need to be kicked to the curb. 

Post # 54
667 posts
Busy bee

Wow. “Something better” .. as if her period means she’s broken. I’d have to send her that one too, so she can change the locks and leave his stuff on the driveway. 

What. A. Loser. 


I don’t care that she was misguided and was his cheat-ee; he’s the one who cheated on his spouse, not her. No one deserves to be talked about like that. 

Oh, I’d just love to hear a very satisfying revenge story. 

I hope your friend finds “something better” and leaves this dumpster fire.  

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