- 8 years ago
- Wedding: March 2011
Dearest, closest, like-family-to-me friends, (& a few family members, too!),
WHY is it that you are acting like our wedding was sprung upon you like it’s this new, sudden, surprise thing? Our wedding is in 6 weeks. We got engaged Dec. 2009. I’ve talked about it a ton on facebook, where many of you are friends with me. You received save the dates last fall. You received your invitations just after the first of the year. It is beyond me why you are JUST NOW starting to consult your calendars and put together travel/hotel plans… and now in several cases it no longer works for you to come.
I know that schedules are tight and money is tight. I know that we can’t expect all of our nearest and dearest to come. But really? Why would you wait this long to look at all this stuff and make your plans!? We’ve known each other for years. My wedding will not be the same without you. I’ve always envisioned you there. And now you’re bailing because of YOUR poor planning!? I’m not mad, I’m just really really disappointed.
Sorry Bees- I just had to get that out. There’s bound to be others going through the same thing, right?