(Closed) Mini-metdown; is this normal?

posted 12 years ago in Emotional
Post # 17
Member
142 posts
Blushing bee

*hugs* Just showing support. I think it’s normal to be stressed.

I want a black dress too, but I know I’m not going to get one. FI’s mom & grandma would be heartbroken. The way I see it, it’s something not worth fighting about.

Remember, relax and enjoy yourself. 🙂

Post # 18
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52 posts
Worker bee

I know what you mean about the wedding not feeling like it’s yours. Friends and family often have an idea of what a “proper” wedding should be like and project it onto you. I definitely feel that my wedding and the events surrounding it have been hijacked at times. It starts off with you thinking you can compromise, but all those little compromises add up and then you don’t even recognize your event anymore. I’m glad to hear you’ve had a talk with your mom and things seem to be working out. I actually ended up just doing a lot of things myself and not talking to anybody about it, Lol!

Post # 19
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840 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Noelle, First, I think it’s completely normal. My date is a little before yours and I’ve been just one meltdown after another! It seems to be getting worse, not better. Second, forget what everyone else wants and change the things you need to change to make the wedding your own. You’d be surprised the things you can change in two months time.

Gosh knows I didn’t let anyone telling me and Fiance that some certain of our ideas were “tacky” stop us. If we want to enter the reception hall to Rocky (yes, rock the movie) music, and write football coach comments on our cocktail napkins, whos is to stop us? hahahha!

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