(Closed) Mini-Rant about my BFF/Groomsman

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 4
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1734 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Unless he knows otherwise, tell him that you already gave the numbers in and that since he didn’t RSVP (and had been talking about getting his flirt on!), you didn’t allot him a plus one in the final count — and that you’ll be delighted to meet this girl sometime soon.

Post # 6
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658 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@village_skeptic:  I agree. That is avery nice way to handle this situation without coming off rude. And maybe he just isn’t familiar with weddings, and final counts and all that jazz. 

Post # 7
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1734 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@turkey22:  I would be about 99% sure that he isn’t familiar! Most people aren’t unless they’ve had a formal wedding in their family sometime recently. We only learned after our wedding that one of my husband’s (female) friends had to keep two of his other (female) friends from inviting guys they met the night before to our reception! So this isn’t only the dudes.

Post # 8
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2874 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

wait so he’s in recovery too? maybe its for support for him so he can avoid temptation?

i can understand not wanting last minute invites, regardless of the situation though

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