(Closed) Mini rant!

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
964 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I’m sorry.  Just try to relax.  Just remember if you have ten Bridesmaid or Best Man or none the most important thing is that you are marrying your man.  I know it sucks for all this last minute cancellations but 17 days out let’s just try and focus on the positive stuff.  Hope everything works.

Post # 4
418 posts
Helper bee

I’m sorry! You should take some time away from wedding planning so that  you can relax and come back to it refreshed. Sh*t happens, you just have to take it in stride. Good luck!

Post # 5
23602 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

Oh gosh, hugs to you! πŸ™

Post # 6
13014 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Oh wow, I’m sorry!  It’s unfortunate that things like this happen, but they do.  All you can do is move on. 

Post # 8
3452 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Oh no!  I’m sorry to hear that.  I hope things get better for you.

Post # 9
115 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

wow! that is aweful.  i would be really curious as to what is going on? did these bm’s have a bridal shower and bachollorette party for you? 


Post # 11
89 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

It seems like the common factor may be … you. Have you tried to reach out to these girls, not as “bride to bridesmaids” but as friends, and figure out what’s going on?


If no one wants to be your friend/support you, maybe it’s something you are doing?

Post # 12
5 posts
  • Wedding: August 2012

That’s really bad. I would go ahead and move forward without them or find a very quick replacement that can find a dress off the rack because bridesmaids dresses can take time to come in. If you can’t find replacements just go with the flow if you have more groomsman vs bridesmaids have a groom walk down two bridesmaids at a time they have two arms πŸ™‚ I have seen that done before! Best of luck to you!

Post # 13
2416 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

This sucks…but it also sounds fishy…is it something you guys are doing? (No offense…) I’ve just never heard of this happening…

Post # 15
804 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@MrsStamper21:  If you’re always afraid that you’ll be too nice and other people will take advantage, maybe no one has gotten close enough to you yet because they can sense that you don’t fully trust them. 

I don’t think anyone is setting out to ruin your wedding.  At the end of the day, the thing that matters most is that you and your Fiance are married and surrounded by people who love and support you…if unsupportive people remove themselves, consider yourself lucky it happened now and not the day of or even right after the wedding.

I am sorry it’s happening though πŸ™  I hope things improve soon!  You’re going to have a beautiful wedding that you will remember for years to come as one of the happiest days of your life, because you’ll be married to the love of your life. 

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