- 6 years ago
- Wedding: July 2012
I was on fb the other day and messaged all the guys in the wedding to start getting their measurments done for tuxes. the one guy doesn’t have a fb acct so he says to just send everything to his wife’s acct and she will let him know. so fine I did that…she replied say that she will have him get it done soon. ok, perfect, as I have asked them now, but reallity is, we have lots of time still to order.
I get a message back from the wife asking what our wedding colours are, so i tell her and now she is replying with, “oh, great! I will dress our daughter in her holiday dress, as it’s the same colours and we can get some pics of her with her daddy on the day of the wedding!” WTF? we are not having and children IN our wedding except for MY kids, so apparently this little girl will be coming and she will be dressed to match the wedding????? i would never do something like that to someone. and I have never met this woman! nevermind the fact that when the invites go out, it is addressed to so N so smith, not and FAMILY… we are having a lot of people at our wedding and have already had to tell fmil to stop adding people to the guest list, as the church holds 250 and we have about that many people invited without their kids…. why do people feel it’s a free for all when i know that she didn’t have any kids at her own wedding…. fi says to just let it go, and that not many people will bring their kids, but i am getting more worked up just thinking about it. grrr
I don’t want to have to put it on the invites that kids are NOT invited, but I also don’t want 30 or more kids to come either. the invites are going to be clearly writtien to invite Mr & Mrs so & so, not and family, so I HOPE people will get the point! if not, i will have to deal with it i guess, but I won’t be happy bout it.
ok, rant is over, thanks 😉