(Closed) Minor vent!

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Hostess
18637 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I guess it’s just the old tradition of not seeing each other before the wedding.  Oh well, just move on from it.

Post # 5
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546 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I’m, I’m the same – I would hate to see my Fiance before the ceremony!!! I am admant that we don’t!   – we’re not doing a first look either.

 

I’d just forget it – it’s just how some of us are! 😀

Post # 6
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2788 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

She probably was very taken aback by the idea and did not have the ability to mask her surprise well. To some, a wedding has some very set and immovable ‘rules,’ and this appears to be one of them for your Future Mother-In-Law. If you want to see him before the wedding, I would speak with her again about it, in private. 

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I know the feeling!  My Fiance is very superstitious, and he truely believes that if he sees me in my dress before the wedding, that our marriage will be doomed to bad luck for life.  Personally I think it’s silly, but I go along with it because it’s important to my Fiance.  I just count his superstitions as one of his quirks that makes him cute LOL.

Post # 8
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1641 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

If you live together and are adults, personally, I would just ignore her. She has the right to say anything she wants but she doesn’t have a right to dictate what you do.

Post # 9
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7431 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

I didn’t want to be apart from my husband so we spent the night before together rather than apart. It made sense to us, and no one argued it

Post # 10
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105 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

We are spending the night together before the wedding and hope to have lots of “fun” that night.  And then maybe again in the morning…

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