Miscarriage … did you get pregnant again :(

posted 9 months ago in TTC
Post # 31
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

enjoy :  I had what I suspect was a chemical pregnancy in December 2017, then took three months to get pregnant in March 2018 which ended in miscarriage just before 6 weeks, and then got pregnant right away without a period in between which resulted in my three month old daughter! ❤️

Post # 32
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

Got pregnant first cycle off birth control last July. Had an MMC with a D&C in September. We waited one cycle then started trying again. No BFP yet since but I’m hopeful.

If I don’t get a BFP this cycle my doctor agreed to basic testing just to check if anything obviously wrong is going on. 

Sorry for your loss Bee, MCs are devestating but most women have happy endings eventually – that’s what I tell myself on downer days. Hearing what other bees have endured helps too knowing that not everyone just snaps their fingers and boom healthy pregnancy (which is what it feels like with friends and family around me in ‘real life’)

Big hugs to you!!

Post # 33
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

enjoy :  I’m so sorry you’re experiencing this. I miscarried over my Spring Break 4 years ago. It was a chemical pregnancy that I’m guessing started to fail at around 5 weeks. I found out just after turning 6 weeks that my numbers were declining and had heavy bleeding and intense cramps do a day before the bleeding began to subside. We tried that cycle (MC cycle), an incredibly I got pregnant with my son (now 3) that cycle. My OB said it was fine since I didn’t need medical intervention for my MC. 

Hoping you get that rainbow baby very, very soon. 

Post # 34
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

enjoy : I’m so sorry for your loss. I found my miscarriage incredibly sad and my partner tried to support me but I don’t think it affected him the same way. Please try to do some kind things for yourself. Sending you big warm hugs. 

I miscarriaged Dec 2016 and was pregnant Dec 2017. I was told that a miscarriage was very common and wouldn’t affect my chance of successful future pregnancies. My mum had 3 miscarriages and 5 living children. I think she had a miscarriage, 2 babies, 2 more miscarriages, 3 more babies. She had her last 3 babies a bit older too – at age 34, 37 and 40. 

Xx 

Post # 38
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Helper bee

enjoy :  congratulations! Fingers crossed for you. A rainbow pregnancy is such an incredibly special thing. It can be an anxious time, so be sure to take care of your mental health and put yourself first. Take care of yourself, Mama! I don’t think I ever really “relaxed” during my rainbow pregnancy, but every moment and every fear was worth it the second I heard my daughter cry. You’ve got this!

Post # 39
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Blushing bee

enjoy :  congrats on your BFP! I too had a miscarriage in March, after 13 months of TTC our second child. I’m currently in the midst of a really weird cycle, but hoping I get my rainbow soon. So happy to see that you’ve gotten your rainbow!

Post # 40
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

So sorry for your loss. We also needed medical intervention but I mc then we had another transfer and I got pg with our son. Can’t remember how long it was in between but I don’t think it was too long. Best wishes! Many people go on to have successful pregnancies after mc. 

Post # 42
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

enjoy :  I’m sorry, that really sucks. I’m glad you’re feeling hopeful though! It’s a good sign that your body is ready to be pregnant again and hopefully your sticky bean is coming up soon! 

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