(Closed) Miserable and ashamed: The End

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
4137 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

i’m so sorry. it sounds like you did the right thing though, and i’m sure with time you’ll find the man that’s perfect for you. i can’t believe people are telling you they doubted your relationship — totally inappropriate!

Post # 4
3148 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

@Mizerable: Good luck on all yoru new adventures!! 🙂 You made a tough choice and I am sure (or hope!) it was the right one!! **hugs**

Post # 5
6350 posts
Bee Keeper

Best of luck, honey. We are all pulling for you. Go get a massage!

Post # 6
6392 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

Hugs! You definitely made the right decision, and it was brave of you to do so.

Post # 7
2788 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

I just want to let you know that my thoughts are with you.  Best of luck in the future.

Post # 8
105 posts
Blushing bee

@Mizerable: Oh, I am so sorry that you had to do that, but you did the right thing, right now.  (Honestly, I had to do the same thing 4 weeks ago, and the pain is unbelievable).  In times like these, you need to trust in a few cliched sayings, and those are ‘time heals all wounds’ and ‘if it’s meant to be it will be’.  You have to believe that if this man is meant to be your husband, it will happen, someday. 

Now just take the time you need to relax and sort things out for yourself, and make yourself happy. Like you, my ex-FI and I remain friends, because ultimately, that’s what we’ve always been, and I hope always will be.

Best wishes.  You’ll get through this.

Post # 9
2790 posts
Sugar bee

I think you did the right thing and I hope the pain eases soon! I’m so sorry you had to do this!

Post # 10
112 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

🙁 So sorry you are going thru this…But, as I’m sure you know, you will be ok 🙂

Post # 11
362 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

So sorry you are going through all this right now. Stay strong and keep your head up! Good luck!

Post # 13
14492 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011


Years ago I split with a man I had been with for more than ten years. While it was heartbreaking, looking back, it was the best decision for both of us. He cheated on me, and it took me more than a year before I could even talk to him with tears. In time our friendship returned. We went through so much together that I could not see him ever not being apart of my life. I still talk to him to this day. Now I am happy with the FH and never regret my decisions. It will take time, but it does get better. Just allow yourself to grieve, only moving through the process will you get to a new beginning. Good Luck

Post # 14
2319 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

OMG! I am so sorry to hear this. I cannot imagine your pain. You did what is right for you. And you had the courage to go through with it.

To the PP: It is NEVER easy on the guy or even ‘easier’ when you break up with the man that loves you. He can show you that he is strong for your own sake mostly but deep down inside he has been SEVERELY damaged. He might even go on to have questionable relationships now. Believe me, the boy is f**ked.

The topic ‘Miserable and ashamed: The End’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors