(Closed) Miss my mom

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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6065 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2012

@gilmoresgirl:  My heart aches for you. You don’t sound selfish at all. Of course it’s natural to want this to be a blissfully happy time in your life.

I’ll be keeping you and your mom in my prayers. 

My advice is to try not to feel guilty when you need to take time for yourself and when you need to escape a little to enjoy yourself.

Post # 4
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3799 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@Evie19:  try not to feel guilty when you need to take time for yourself and when you need to escape a little to enjoy yourself. <—- this. This is so important, @gilmoresgirl:. When you are overwhelmed or sad, be sure to take care of you.

I am thinking of you. Sending love and prayers that your mom can be with you on your big day. <3

Post # 5
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606 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@soyjoy222:  strong second… you do not sound slefish at all. Make sure you are also taking care of yourself and I’m so sorry that you’re having to go through this. Hoping for the best.

Post # 6
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2401 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I’m there with you. I’ve been taking care of my mom for 3 years as well (mental hospital) and have just started the wedding planning process.

There needs to be support groups for brides without moms. <hugs>

Post # 7
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6248 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 1900

I can’t even begin to imagine how difficult this must be for you. =(

*hugs* Sending good thoughts your way.

Post # 8
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27 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I will pray for you and your mom.  In this life we have hills and peaks at what always seems to be the right and wrong times.  Let the good memories with your mom be your solace and peace.  Most importantly know that GOD is with you.

Post # 10
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2699 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I don’t really have advice from you I just wanted to say I think you’re incredibly strong for dealing with this. It must be really hard. xxxx

Post # 12
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2699 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

That’s exactly what Fiance is there for. Tell him how much you appreciate him to show him you’re grateful for his support but don’t feel guilty about it.

I’m so sorry you’re in such an emotionally draining situation. You’ve done the only thing you can putting her in a hospice. Try to focus equally on the good things in your life to maintain as positive an atiitude as at all possible. Sometimes life can be shit. I’m not religious but I do think things happen so that we can learn and grow from them. Please know that you’re in people’s prayers xx

Post # 13
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6065 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2012

@gilmoresgirl:  My heart aches for you. Sending hugs and prayers your way…

Please let your Fiance and other friends and family members take care of you during this difficult time. Don’t hesitate to ask for help when you need it.

And come back and vent to us anytime…

Post # 14
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2 posts
Wannabee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I am sorry for what you are goin through. I am planning my wedding, and my mom lives 24 hours away. It makes it so much harder when they arent there, Good luck,

Post # 15
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1106 posts
Bumble bee

Oh no! I am so sorry!

I can’t say I totally get it – but my grandmother is currently in assited living, she keeps falling and she just got to meet my SO.  I know he’ll be proposing some time this year, but it would kill me if she didn’t get to the wedding – I’m her youngest grandchild but also the one closest to her/her favourite (seriously, everyone tells me that!).  I hope things get better, though!

*hugs*

Post # 16
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1133 posts
Bumble bee

aw, hugs!! I can’t imagine going through what you are, let alone during my engagement. It’s supposed to be the happiest time of your life, no one will fault you for feeling down. I will be sending prayers your way!!

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