Post # 1
I got in a fight with one of my best friends right before Christmas. In a nutshell she had been bringing me down, and making hurtful comments to me ever since I met my FH.
Some of our friends in common think she was jeolous because I found the love of my life and she has a hard time keeping men around. (that’s another story)
I now feel like i’m missing someone who should have been a bridesmaid. We used to be so close and I’ve had very few really close friends in my life. I’m weird like that, i’m selective with the people I really let get to know me. And I shouldn’t be hurt continuously from a friend and let them make me feel like a bad person, when I didn’t do anything.
I know I can have someone else as a bridesmaid but how do I get rid of the feeling that a bridesmaid is missing?
Post # 3
Maybe give it some time and see where your relationship goes.
You have loads of time before your wedding.
Post # 4
I think that it’s in times like this that we really get to see where love conquers all!
I’m sorry you’re dealing with this broken relationship =(. Maybe you could forgive her, reconcile the relationship, & just remind yourself (constantly) that her actions are b/c she’s hurting and not because she doesn’t love & care about you and your friendship.
I learned that hurting people hurt people, and really.. no matter how much the care about the person, they really can’t help it =/
I really hope this can be restored for ya’ll & that you can see it for what it really is (which looks like it really has nothing to do with you per say) then your love/heart for your friend/friendship will overcome her junk and she can grow in this with you & ya’ll will be even better for it!
Hope it works out 😉