- 7 years ago
Everyone loves sitting down to do the guest lists, am I right? It’s like pulling teeth to get anything from my FH. I’ve been having to ask him person by person. Which, to me, is really suckish, treating him like a child almost.
Anyways, recently I asked if he was inviting his father. The response was no. Granted, I realize his parents are divorced. Not freshly, but I still haven’t gotten the whole giant story. FH says he and his dad don’t get along, but everything I’ve seen says things are contrary to that.
Do I respect his wishes and not address an invite to his dad and his dad’s new family or do I hold onto one of the extras in case things change? I’ve never met the man and probably won’t for a while as he’s not exactly in the same state as either of us.