(Closed) Missing my best friend’s wedding for my own shower today :( Long and venty.

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
5096 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Aww, I’m sorry. I totally understand how disappointed you are.  I think you’re doing the right thing, and it would have been totally unreasonable of her to expect you to cancel a longstanding event at such short notice. She obviously understood and accepted this when she picked her date.  But it still sucks, no two ways about it.

Post # 5
1227 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I’m sorry – that situation really sucks. It sounds like your friend completely understands, though. She knows you can’t just up and cancel something that has been planned for months to accomodate her. It’s great that you got to spend time together last night, and I’m sure she appreciates your support via text today. Please don’t stress about it. Ultimately, you need to be focusing on your guests and sharing the experience of the shower with them today.

Post # 6
4771 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I’m sorry about your situation and don’t want you to feel even worse but it kinda seems like your graduate friend does not want friends at her wedding and instead of owning up to that she just didn’t tell people and told you this: “I know it’s the day of your shower, I’m really sorry that you can’t be there.”

I find that very deliberate.  So really her invite seems kinda a gift grab on her part, I wouldn’t feel too bad about not going.

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