(Closed) Missing my FI

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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5921 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Aww 🙁 I can relate.  Fiance works out of state, and he has been gone since March 10.  Although I have flown to see him twice, it still hurts coming home to an empty house. 

Post # 4
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95 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I feel your pain sweetie. I’m used to having Fi an arm’s length away but his new job has him working out of state. I only see him on the weekends until this job is done. It stinks!

Post # 5
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4024 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I know how you feel. Well, kinda! Since Fiance and I started dating, we have never gone a day without seeing each other. And since we moved in, we have never been apart for even 1 night. I think if we had to I would be a wreck! I really admire those women who can do long distance and military and such. It would be so hard and I’m such a baby!

Post # 7
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5921 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

@Rosie Girl.  Before Fiance started his new job last year, I was exactly like you.  I was a baby 🙂 I couldn’t sleep if he was out late, etc.  Honestly, you just get used to it.  When he left last year, he was gone for a full 5 weeks and it was MISERABLE.  Now he has been gone for almost 3 months, and it is no biggie.  You just adjust.  We still talk on the phone 4-5 times a day, Skype, text, email, etc.  Technology makes it much easier. 

Fiance is actually coming home Sunday for 3 weeks (YYYYAAAAAAYYYYYYYYY!) and then will be leaving for another 3 months.

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Okay seriously you’re not whiny. It’s just what you’re used to. I actually get lonely when my Fiance has shows both nights on the weekends.

Something about being home by yourself makes you notice the abscence more than if you were out or on a trip of your own.

Post # 9
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2313 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

Its ok, I too can relate. SO has to go out of the country for work in a few days and I’m already dreading the time apart. Maybe you can plan a surprise dinner for him or a small project like that to keep your mind occupied and pass some time.

Post # 10
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1046 posts
Bumble bee

I still whine like crazy when hubby has to work (which is often, about 70% of the time). The nights when he is away suck… you can’t sleep and can only think about them coming home again.

Ahhh the life of the military wife. Rewarding in some aspects and just plain crappy in all the others :/

Post # 11
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1106 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Awww… hang in there!! I will be in your shoes next week :[ My FH is leaving for Vegas for 4 days. That sounds a little pathetic, but when we’re not used to being apart, it’s a little tough!

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