(Closed) Missing my mom….days before the wedding

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Hostess
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@ashnic87:  Oh no, sweetie!!! 🙁  Big hugs to you!  I’m SO sorry that you are feeling this way, and that you are without your mom for your wedding day. I am sure that she is looking down on you with a warm smile, and looking back fondly on all of the great memories that you two shared!

Post # 4
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207 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

My mom passed when I was in high school, and my wedding is in 24 days. I have no clue how I will get through the day, so I don’t have any words of advice but would love to hear from others. I really hope I dont bawl the whole time.

Post # 5
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3420 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Manhattan Church Rec Center

*hugs*

Post # 6
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11270 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

@ashnic87:  i am sorry you are feeling this.  i can’t say that i know what you are going through but trust me, as a mother, i know deep down that your mother wouldn’t miss this for anything because that’s just who mothers are.  she may not be there in person but she will be there in spirit, smiling from above.  make her proud.

good luck on saturday and enjoy your day.

Post # 7
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816 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@ashnic87:  So, so, so sorry you’re going through this. 🙁 I can’t imagine the feeling, but I just want you to know that I’m thinking of you! Lean on your Fiance, your family, and your friends. They’ll understand. Remember the wonderful times you shared with your mother, and realize that when she passed, all she had were wonderful memories of you. The bad stuff just floats away. 

Post # 8
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944 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. My mother died in 2009 and it has been more than difficult doing any wedding plans without her, I miss her terribly. Try to think of the good memories of her – my mother had Alzheimer’s disease for over 10 years. I remember her when I was a little girl because the last few years of her life were hell for her and my family.

Post # 9
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621 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I am so sorry.

I cant imagine how hard this is for you but I know for sure she will be looking down on you that day with love and happiness.

Im not quite sure what to say, but I will pray for you on that day. Have a beautiful wedding and be sure to surround yourself with your loving family the next few days. Hugs.

Post # 10
Member
1248 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012 - Chateau Briand

My mom passed away when I was 22. If I’m completely honest the wedding planning itself was much harder without her than the wedding itself. I dreaded going dress shopping without her. Our wedding day was so busy with getting ready and all our guests wanting their moment with the bride & groom, we didn’t have time to think. I incorporated a pendant with my mother’s photo into my bouquet so it was a nice way to remember her on our special day without making it a public affair. 

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