Mistake made?

posted 1 year ago in Relationships
Post # 2
Member
778 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

I moved to another city to be with my ex. When the relationship was over I moved back to the city I was living in before. I had no connection to the city except the ex so there was nothing there left for me. I also moved to another country to be with my husband. Here I feel like I built a life and if we ever get a divorce I don’t think I would leave. So how is your life now? Are you happy with your job, your overall life, friends, family, hobbies? Where is there more opportunities for you? Maybe going back would be an investment. You can go grow, enjoy your live and save and then come back after a couple of years if that’s needed.

Post # 3
Member
320 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2018

I moved across the country with an ex.  We made it all of 6 months before I finally decided to free myself.  I stayed in that state for another 6 months trying to make it work, but the mix of mourning a serious relationship and trying to fix the financial mess I was in really made things difficult.  It was the lowest point in my life.  I was ashamed to ask for help but my parents graciously reached out to me after learning how severely damaged my credit and mental health was, and insisted that I move in with them while I put the pieces of my life back together.  It was really hard for me, I felt like I was giving up.  But it was one of the best moves I ever made.  My parents helped nurture me back to stability, I got my credit fixed in about 2 years, and around the same time met my now fiance.  My life has done a complete 180 and I don’t think I would have recovered had I stayed in the place where it felt like all my dreams fell apart.

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