(Closed) Mixed Race/Mixed Size :)

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 31
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2347 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

 

Jenaqte:  1. People are jealous.

2. He’s so cute, what a nice smile!!  

3. SO ARE YOU!!!  

To be honest, from what I can see of your small thumbnail is that you guys would look very good together, so I don’t get it.  

allyfally:  Size 18???  In what country??  You look to be about my size and I’m an 8ish!!  

Post # 32
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2783 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Srsly? It’s 2014. As if people actually still care about this.

OP, the best revenge is living a happy life, which it sounds like you two are. Don’t let ignorance bring you down.

Post # 33
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6432 posts
Bee Keeper

Jenaqte:  I wouldn’t lose any sleep over it, many relationships now a days are interracial.  My husband is white and I’m asian and it doesn’t kill us to have that difference in race.  Honestly I hardly ever notice it except in pictures when he’s like a ghost.  But even then I never notice that we’re different races because it doesn’t bother me.  And it shouldn’t bother you any of the comments people say or make.  I’m sure people look at us odd because my husband is over 6 feet tall, I’m not even 5 feet tall, he’s calm and patience, I’m a hot head.  We both have the same sense of humor, but other than that, we’re two different people, but we still love each other and the color of our skin doesn’t matter, becuase in the end we all bleed the same color.

Post # 34
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1218 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Jenaqte:  Darling Husband and I aren’t mixed race, but we are ‘mixed size’. I’m on the slim side of average and he’s overweight. Obviously I find him attractive or we wouldn’t be married, but occasionally he does get the ‘punching above his weight’ comments from friends and strangers. I believe this is purely based on weight because I’m average looking and he is quite good looking in the face. He’s also from a very different background to me (working class Irish immigrant family versus my two parents with Masters degrees). Oddly enough his family are the only ones who give us any hassle about that.

Your Fiance clearly loves you and is attracted to you – if you’re getting ignorant comments just remind yourself of that!

Post # 35
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1718 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Aw, I feel you!  I totally get that it’s 2014 and there are many, many interracial couples but even the benign comments are tinged with a little racism/stereotypes.  I wouldn’t let it get to you.  You’re a beautiful couple!

Post # 36
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1914 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Dallas, TX

I think you’re both very attractive. Just remember that this man who you find extremely attractive is marrying YOU. He wouldn’t be if he didn’t also find you attractive. I think the comments you’ve been getting about his appearance should be taken at face value and not read into. I’m sure there are some ignorant people out there who can’t wrap their head around an interracial marriage, but I do believe (and hope) that in this day they are in the minority. Just ignore the haters and enjoy your hot man and best wishes for your marriage ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 37
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8482 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2014

BurlapnLace:  lol, I assure you its just the angle! 

Post # 38
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369 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

You are just as beautiful and who cares what others think anyway! You’re happy and that’s all that matters! And yes,  he is insanely handsome!! Gorgeous smile!  Please keep us updated with your wedding pics! ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 39
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4943 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

 

Jenaqte:  He’s very handsome! Congrats on your upcoming wedding!

My husband and I couldn’t be any more different – he grew up in the country, me in the city. He tends to be more conservative (politically) and I’m lean more liberal. He’s a hunter and outdoorsman, I’m a vegetarian and animal activist. ๐Ÿ™‚ See what I mean?! ha! Yet, it works. So don’t worry about your differences – it’s true that you complete each other. ๐Ÿ™‚

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