(Closed) Mixed signals vent

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 32
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899 posts
Busy bee

Agreed, if he wanted to marry you he’d ask. Also, when a man says he doesn’t want to get married in general or doesn’t “believe in marriage”, it just means he doesn’t want to marry YOU. This guy is just playing with you.

Post # 34
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662 posts
Busy bee

My SO has known my $h!t or get off the pot date for a long long while.  Have you thought about telling him his deadline? 

Post # 36
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662 posts
Busy bee

I’m happy to hear you are in a good place.  I think a lot of us realize sooner or later that we went too far down the rabbit hole and need to pull back a little bit.  I like your attitude.  Focus on yourself and the rest will fall into place. 

Post # 37
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198 posts
Blushing bee

@MariaW:  I am VERY sorry to hear about all of the mixed signals you have been getting. I really, really, really hate to put it this way, but I don’t think he knows what he wants. 

From your other posts, you have told him you were going to leave and he knows he has to make a decision or lose you forever, and he OBVIOUSLY doesn’t want to lose you, but at the same time, saying you are looking for rings and then saying you aren’t ENTIRELY sure is a no-no.

I’m glad you have a bail date in mind, and I REALLY hope that things work out for the better, but this just doesn’t sound right to me, and there are far too many men out there who know what they want and are willing to commit. It’s still the beginning of October, which means he still has a bit of time to get himself in gear, but I really hope you are prepared to do what you need to do should to the time come.

Good luck to you.

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