Post # 1
Ok all, my dress is all lace with some bling. Well, I was talking to my mom about having my flower girls wear pink lace dresses. My ccolors are mint, turquoise and light pink. Well I stopped over to my parents today and my mom had said she found a dress and it is a darker shade of pink all lace. I was kind of offended because I had expressed how wantEd my flower ggirls dress and then she picked this out with discussing with me. The other thing is, is that I didn’t want anyone wearing lace other than my flower girls. I didn’t want to be too
matchy. Am I wrong on this?
Post # 3
it depends. do you have a picture of all the dresses together?
It is your wedding, and if i had a vision I would be a tad disappointed, but I would want my mom to be comfortable and if that is what she is confortable in then I think i would learn to live with it. Maybe you can find something similar for her to try on without the lace or compromise?
Post # 4
Why does it matter? Let her wear whatever dress she wants. I doubt it looks anything like a flower girl dress, she even said it’s a darker colour. Are you going to tell all your guests they aren’t allowed to wear lace too?
Post # 5
@Mlucius: I think this is a non issue. Your Mom will not be confused for one of the flower girls, or in fact any of the wedding party.
MOB’s have been dressing themselves for years. They really don’t need our interference. I guarantee that as popular as lace is this year, some of your guests will be wearing lace.