(Closed) MOB and MOH dilemma

posted 8 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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53 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

I was in a wedding that had 2 – and there really wasn’t any planned out delegations.  One threw a shower (because she really wanted to) the other was more artsy and helped with decorations and research – etc.  I dont think you need or should have to write out a list of what you’re going to delegate.  As you need things it will happen on its own.  

Post # 4
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646 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I didn’t even elect to have my sisters in my wedding for the reason you described… I love them, but they’re not the closest people to me. And since I have three sisters and wanted a small wedding party, I chose not to have them at all.

BUT, I do have two MOH’s. 🙂 They’re just working together on things. One is here in CA with me, the other is in the Midwest where I grew up. They’ll each plan separate showers… But, I don’t think there is really much to delgate. I just like having both of them. It lets me spread out my wedding obsessing between two people! 🙂

Post # 6
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907 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Dude, I would just let your two MOHs communicate about what responsibilites they’d each like to handle. Who knows, this could be a great opportunity for them each to do what they like/not get stuck doing a task they dislike. They’re both mature adults, right? Your mom shouldn’t even be involved.

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