(Closed) MOB/MOG Coordination

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Did/Will your MOB and MOG coordinate?
    Yes, with each other and the wedding colors. : (4 votes)
    12 %
    Yes, but only with each other. : (3 votes)
    9 %
    Yes, but only with the wedding colors. : (5 votes)
    15 %
    No. : (18 votes)
    55 %
    Other (see below). : (3 votes)
    9 %
  • Post # 3
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    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    By ettiquette, the MOB picks her dress and then calls the MOG and lets her choose a dress to compliment eachother.

    Post # 4
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Well, my colors are dark purple and burnt orange. My mother has chosen a wine colored dress and I’ve suggested to MOG to stick with fall colors or jewel tones.

    Post # 6
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    Well they’re supposed to coordinate as far as formality.  But not necessarily colors or styles.  Complimenting each other is the key, not coordinating per se.

    Post # 8
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    @tksjewelry:  That’s what our moms did, but the coordination wasn’t about color…it was more to make sure that they were a comparably formal and not accidentally in the same or nearly the same dress.  

    Since the coordinated, but it wasn’t about color, I didn’t know how to answer the poll.

    Post # 9
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    5761 posts
    Bee Keeper

    I don’t believe it has anything to do with etiquette. It’s really more of a tradition, but many traditions have been discarded lately.

    Post # 10
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: February 2010

    I told them to wear whatever color they wanted. And they both chose the same exact color. It was weird that they coordinated so well with no direction, and it ended up looking really good.

    Post # 11
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    Our mothers have strict orders to each wear something that makes them feel beautiful.  Beyond that, I know they are hoping to coordinate with each other in terms of dress length/formality (so one doesn’t wear a formal/black tie dress and the other come in cocktail attire) but they’re not going to match.  Our wedding colors are white and silver, and my maids are in black, so I’d say they probably won’t coordinate with those! Hoping my mother chooses something light gold.

    Post # 12
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    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    Sort of – they both knew they were wearing short dresses but they didnt really coordinate with one another. My Mother-In-Law did wait until my mom had gotten her dress to make sure that hers fit well. My mom wore a robins egg blue dress and my Mother-In-Law wore a multicolored dress. They didnt match my wedding colors but they “went” with my wedding colors.

    My Mom is the one in blue

    My Mother-In-Law

    Post # 13
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    mob is wearing green, mog is wearing blue. they each asked me for approval.

    Post # 15
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    550 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    I chose other because the MOB is coordinating with the colors but the MOG is not.

    Post # 16
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: January 1991

    I voted no, but I honestly have no clue. My mom has already found her dress I believe. His mom is too busy to even think about the wedding……… so we probably won’t know until the wedding day what she’s wearing. I’m ok with that because they can wear whatever they want! Less for me to deal with 🙂

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