(Closed) MOH & BM dilemma! HELP! :)

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
2616 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

i wouldnt get anything for anyone who asked if they get more.. thats rude. bridal party gifts should not be expected. its a gift not a payment.

Post # 4
9674 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

i agree, don’t give her anything extra! she should be happy that she gets a gift at all! she didn’t help any more than your other Bridesmaid or Best Man did!

Post # 5
939 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Perhaps make them different, but one not more than the bm? But yes, I totally agree that’s rude.

Post # 6
2052 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Give them what you want to give them based on what you feel is right, and the heck with what your Maid/Matron of Honor or anyone else says. If she is going to be petty and compare her gift to your BM’s, that is her problem. Just smile. What is she gonna do? Huff and puff and blow your house down? Do what you want for your wedding.

Post # 7
5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

give her a framed photo of yourself – that should shut her up 🙂

Post # 8
964 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I also think that is kind of rude.  Some weddings the bride gives the BM jewelry which is to be used for the wedding as the only present. 

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