(Closed) MOH – am I wrong?

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
7871 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

You’re 100% in the right. The bride was out of line questioning you like that. I don’t know what to suggest except tell her what you’ve told here: that you’ve put a lot into this wedding already, and these girls are ganging up on you.

Post # 3
2215 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2015 - St Peter's Church, East Maitland, and Bella Vista, Newcastle

I’d put money on it that if you did completely take control and “lead”, they’d whine and complain that you weren’t letting them be a part of the planning.  I don’t think you’re in the wrong at all.

Post # 4
1225 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

They sound really catty. I wouldb’t be surprised if they were the ones putting the idea in her head that you don’t want to be MOH. Just pure bullying.   The best you can do is talk to everyone, set a plan in stone and leave it at that. You’re doing nothing wrong. I would suggest speaking to the other girls about what their problem is but that has the potential to make things worse.

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