(Closed) MOH – am I wrong?

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
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7735 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

You’re 100% in the right. The bride was out of line questioning you like that. I don’t know what to suggest except tell her what you’ve told here: that you’ve put a lot into this wedding already, and these girls are ganging up on you.

Post # 3
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2539 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015 - St Peter's Church, East Maitland, and Bella Vista, Newcastle

I’d put money on it that if you did completely take control and “lead”, they’d whine and complain that you weren’t letting them be a part of the planning.  I don’t think you’re in the wrong at all.

Post # 4
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1222 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

They sound really catty. I wouldb’t be surprised if they were the ones putting the idea in her head that you don’t want to be Maid/Matron of Honor. Just pure bullying.   The best you can do is talk to everyone, set a plan in stone and leave it at that. You’re doing nothing wrong. I would suggest speaking to the other girls about what their problem is but that has the potential to make things worse.

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