(Closed) MOH 25th Bday is Monday. I think her BF doesn’t know. Help!! (kind of long)

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
2288 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

Anything involving pictures of you two is always good, ie a scrapbook you’ve made.

Other than that, if you don’t want to directly remind him, you could always say something like “I decided to make Maid/Matron of Honor a ______ for her birthday coming up on the _____, and was wondering if you could send me a picture of you two…” etc.

Post # 4
4824 posts
Honey bee

I would suggest something to her Boyfriend or Best Friend along the lines “Not sure if you know or not, but Friends 25th is Monday and I know shes been wanting to go to dinner at —-. Just thought you might want to know some insider information :)” or something to that effect so he gets the idea.

Baking something is always nice.  Maybe be a little cheasy, but cute and buy two bottles of wine and give it to her with a note telling her she is only allowed to drink it with you on the phone and while you chat one day you will open your wine so you can drink it together. Or maybe over skype?

Post # 5
13096 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

I think however you say something to him, you should not imply that you think he forgot / doesn’t know.  That’s kind of mean and hurtful, IMO, especially since you don’t know him well.

I think something like MissHelen suggested – getting him to help you with something for your gift to your friend – is best.  Let’s him know its her birthday soon if he didn’t know / forgot while not hurting his feelings if he already knows and has something planned.

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