(Closed) MOH vent..

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
963 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I would tell your friend exactly what you said here… Basically that this girl is toxic and while you respect her decision to include toxic friend in the wedding festivities, you hope she will be understanding that you don’t want to be around said toxic friend.  I would suck it up as much as possible, but don’t take any emails or calls from this girl.  No contact is the way to go.  If you have to be at a party with her, bring a friend, stay on the opposite side of the room, and leave early.

I’m sorry that your friend is doing this. It really sucks to have to be around people like this.  you will get through it!

Post # 4
46590 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I suggest you just suck it up and move on.

No, you do not have a right to tell your friend who she can  include in her wedding.

If this woman is as manipulative and toxic as you say, your friend may need your support.

Just be the better person, and carry on as if nothing had changed.

Post # 5
5889 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

i don’t think you have the right to request she kick the girl out.  you can disagree with it, and you can be ticked off, but to try and blackmail her into getting rid of the girl is a bit much.

Post # 7
1144 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

@julies1949: i agree. You cant ask your friend to kick her out or your out.

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