(Closed) MOH and BFF in trouble, what do I do?

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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488 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

It doesn’t sound like you would lose a friend. Your Maid/Matron of Honor is not madly in love with this guy, he’s just an interest. You should immediately tell her everything, and I don’t see why you would need to hide who told you. Basically, as long as your Maid/Matron of Honor stops seeing him now, you can nip it in the bud before feelings get too involved.

Edit: I didn’t see before where she asked you to remain anonymous. I still say be completely honest with your Maid/Matron of Honor, including telling her “The person who told me this asked me not to say who they were, because they were afraid for their safety if it got out.” I know that would make me run…

Post # 4
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1181 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Disclose what you’ve learned about him and then step away from the situation.  Let her figure herself out…

Post # 5
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739 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@FutureMrs_W:  Tell. her. now. There is no reason to keep this from her! Yes, she acted on a whim and broke off an engagement because of some random guy, but maybe that was the right decision for the wrong reasons. As her friend, you should definitely tell her what you know. She could be in danger!

Post # 6
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1935 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

She needs to know, no question. This guy will break her heart, get her pregnant, on drugs, or even worse. She needs to get away from him ASAP, and maybe even repair her relationship with her ex-fiancé. 

Tell her. Now. This is not something to sugar-coat.

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