(Closed) MOH cancelled my bridal shower

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 16
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Bumble bee

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Post # 17
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Worker bee

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swirlyclover86:  You really have issues reading, huh? Poster already stated that her other friends and mom offered to pay for stuff, food included. Take your rudeness somewhere else.

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Bumble bee

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Katie1992:  yes I am that nasty bee that everyone just hates.  What advice do you exactly believe you’ll get other than people agreeing with you and thinking she’s a flake?  

The only probable advice that everyone will say is to “talk to her”.  As a functioning adult, you should know this is the next step.  So why don’t we get truthful here and tell it how it is:  your just mad she isn’t doing what “should” be done by best friends in fantasy weddings here in the bee.  

I hardly think she just started to act like this.  You’ve known this for a while.  So be a big girl and talk to her instead of being on jere stroking your ego from replies from bees who would just pat you in the back and nod to your every word.  

Post # 20
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

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swirlyclover86:  Errr, reading comprehension fail. 

OP, it sucks your Maid/Matron of Honor is being uncooperative especially after your mother and other BM’s offered their support to help with this event. I would absolutely confront her (in a friendly, calm and collected manner) and ask her why she wanted to help coordinate your shower if she really wasn’t able to put the effort forth. It doesn’t make any sense to me because the excuses she gave you are garbage. Most of the guest list at a bridal shower is composed of the bride’s family members. 

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Bumble bee

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Post # 22
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Worker bee

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Katie1992:  I would be upset as well. If she’s such a good friend why couldn’t she call you and discuss it over the phone? She knew when she offered to throw it what responsibilities went with it, unless she lives under a rock, which we know she doesn’t. On top of that, she really wasn’t paying for the most expensive aspect, the food. Lastly, I’ve never been to a shower that didn’t involve the bride’s family.

Post # 25
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

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swirlyclover86:  Deviate much? While I thank you for your poor, unsolicited advice, it still doesn’t change the fact that you failed to properly acknowledge certain aspects of OP’s dilemma. She wholly explained her BM’s and mother offering her Maid/Matron of Honor financial support to throw the bridal shower. However, you managed to disregard that – not just once, but twice. So, in layman’s terms: you suck at reading. 

Post # 26
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Bumble bee

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kmark2688:  why don’t they just throw her one instead?  Why must she throw it?  And when she cancelled why must it be aired out here if her relatives are so darn heplful and would thrown her one instead.  So you suck at logic. 

Post # 27
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

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swirlyclover86:  Holy crap, you’re rude. 

Post # 28
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Newbee

Wow. This thread went to hell. If your Mom is willing to pay, just invite your Future Mother-In-Law as a guest.

You will have years to come to work out your relationship with her.

 

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Blushing bee

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swirlyclover86:  Why are you so angry? Pretty sure OP came here to vent, just like you did a few days ago when you informed the entire bee of your family drama. Seriously, voice your opinions but lose the attitude.

Post # 30
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2016

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Katie1992:  I think pp suggestions of things going on in your MOH’s life might be true, maybe sit her down and talk to her about her life to see how you can help then express how you feel about current situation I expect she knows and also doesn’t know how to tell you she couldn’t really host it.

which also begs the question, 

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swirlyclover86:  what’s going on in your life that you feel the need to be spiteful and hurtful to strangers seeking advice and support at an emotionally stressful time?

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