Post # 1
moh let me know about this a few weeks after the greatest summer of my life I am heart broken . mother does not know and I don’t have the heart to tell her I tried to say a word and I just started crying like a baby. I have lost all my fathers respect and can’t face him. How can I let my mother know without putting my moh in between their oroblems? I’m so afraid she won’t believe me but I believe my moh she’s my best friend. She wouldn’t lie. Please give me ways to face this problem or any emotional support ?
Post # 2
Please explain what she saw…kissing, hand holding or etc. I am sorry this happened to you.
Post # 3
butterflylove12: why don’t you put the weight on your father. Tell him you know and if he doesn’t say anything,you will! Guilt him into saying it. I am really sorry you’re in this situation:/
Post # 4
your moh didn’t take photos? you really shouldn’t go to your mother without evidence
Post # 5
butterflylove12: Have you spoken to or confronted your father about this? Maybe it needs to come from him. Tell him that someone close to you saw him and ask for answers. See what he says from there. Explain that you plan on telling your mother, but that it should come from him first. Hopefully he will admit what he did and try to make amends from your mother.
I think you need to talk to your dad first, but if you don’t want to or can’t, maybe you should sit your mom down and say that someone close to you saw your father either with someone or doing something he shouldn’t be doing. Break it to her gently. If you trust your Maid/Matron of Honor and you believe her 100% then you need to bring that into your conversation with your mother. It would be better if you’ve talked to your father first.
Post # 6
I am sorry this is happening. I might let my dad know I know and give him a chance to come clean, and if he refuses, tell her. Not for his sake, but because she deserves to hear the truth from him.
Post # 7
She saw his car parked near a motel near a commercial shopping center and she followed his car and she clearly saw him go into the motel with another woman she says that they showed affection to each other and she thinks he saw her so I’m scared of this awkward situation . My fathers car has his business info on it it’s really easy to notice . 🙁
Post # 8
If your Mother-In-Law thinks your father saw him going into a motel, your father is bold. I disagree with approaching him. I would talk to your mother first. Hugs bee.
Post # 9
Unless you have conclusive proof (which frankly, you don’t) I wouldn’t advise you tell your mother anything yet. Confront your father, ask questions, demand answers.
Post # 10
butterflylove12: I am not sure this is any of your business. Often times as a child we may not understand or know the dynamics of our parents relationship. I may mention to my dad that someone saw him on a certain street at a certain time to let him know I’m aware but that’s it.
Post # 11
Honestly i would definitely tell your mom because he’s putting her at risk. Im pretty sure she doesnt get tested but she will have to so you need to tell her. For her health and safety!
Post # 12
I would confront your Dad and say that “someone” saw this and guage his reaction
Post # 13
You need to talk rationally with your father. Currently all you have is gossip.
Post # 14
butterflylove12: Tell your mother what you know: nothing more and nothing less. So tell her “MOH saw father go into a motel with another woman” etc etc. She deserves to know.
I strongly disagree with posters who tell you to tell your father. If he is cheating, he doesn’t deserve to be forewarned. If he isn’t cheating, it’s up to him and your mother to sort out.
Post # 15
Also bit weird that your Maid/Matron of Honor was stalking your Dad around