Post # 1
I am going to have 3 bridesmaides (inc MOH).
I am choosing my 2 cousins and my FSIL.
For the MOH I would prefer one of my cousins as FSIL will only be 18/19, my cousins were married in 2010 (6 years apart from me) and they live closer. But they are twins….How do I choose a MOH out of twins? I feel it would be mean to choose one over the other. My partner said to let them decide.
Post # 3
Hi. Yes agree with you on that one.is there anyone out of hat your closer to that you could decide on?
Post # 4
I have two MOH. You could have one or two or three or none. Just let them know that you don’t feel comfortable “promoting” any one relationship over the other. Ask them if they have any strong feeling over performing traditional MOH duties (where they stand, who signs the license…) and hopefully everybody is understanding and supportive of your decisions (if not why would you want them standing with you?) 🙂
Post # 5
Decided to have two MOHs and the FFIL said that FSIL would be a bad choice due to her living 2-3hrs away and potentially going to boarding school later this year until grade 12.