(Closed) MOH dissapeared – VENT

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
115 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

This is what happened with me. I went out on a limb and decided to ask my pre-school (all through mid high school) bestie to be my Maid/Matron of Honor. When we were 5 we made a vow that we would be the Maid/Matron of Honor in eachothers weddings. I practically grew up with her, and her mom loved me like a second child (I lost my mom, so she sorta “took me in”)
Needless to say, I now live states away and our connection hasn’t been very great. But like I said, I just had to ask! So I went to Missouri the other summer to visit all my old family and friends and I asked her. She was so excited and she said yes! Her mom even bought my wedding dress! (She felt it was her “duty” as my second mom) I am very greatfull.

So time went on and she stopped calling me. I guess the excitment died down and the honeymoon stage was over. I kept bugging her to buy her dress since it was going out of stock in Nov (the color she needed) and she kept putting it off. I said, “Are you sure you aren’t going to bail?” and she promised no.
Then, ON FREAKING FACEBOOK, I got a message from her saying she can’t afford coming to the wedding. She talked about how sorry she was and bla bla bla. I was furious and I feel that she doesn’t really know what a Maid/Matron of Honor is if she was able to bail that easily. She still calls me from time to time crying about her personal problems and acts like nothing happened. I am trying not to hold a grudge. But I know she could afford it, she got like 3 new coach purses she was bragging about at my bachelorette party. But whatever. I am happy it happened though, because the girl who I know will always be there in the future is now my Maid/Matron of Honor.
Anyways, try and talk to your friend. If she is ignoring you, she may be feeling a little disconnected or perhaps is on the verge of doing what my friend had done. So call and call her!

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