(Closed) MOH doesn’t understand how to be supportive (vent)

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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129 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

@getitdone ((hugs)) Try talking to your sister and ask her to be more supportive. Your getting down to the wire, your finalizing details and you need her to be by your side. I hope she comes around. I have no siblings, but if I had a sister she would be my Maid/Matron of Honor. In my case my Maid/Matron of Honor is my sorority sister from college, who up until recently has not been supportive. So I totally understand the lack of support during the final stages of wedding planning. I hope everything works out…just don’t let the lack of her support ruin your wedding. All the best:)

Post # 4
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67 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Is your sister much younger than you? My sister and I are quite a few years apart and sometimes I have issues with her as Maid/Matron of Honor for my wedding but I just take a deep breath and realize that her and I are not on the same level (maturity wise, personality wise, etc.) and I try to give her the benefit of the doubt. Maybe take her out to lunch or do something fun with her like shopping or a spa day and gently talk to her about your concerns. She may feel a little jealous that all the attention is on you and this is her way of maybe acting out a bit. My sister and I are the same way….sibling rivalry is no joke! Good luck! 🙂

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