(Closed) MOH drama

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

Have you spoken to her?  I would just explain exactly what happened.  After she turned it down you asked a friend to fill the role, and you don’t think it’s fair to now go back on that because she’s available again.  Tell her how happy you are that she’s available to be a bridesmaid afterall, and that she can be as involved in planning as she likes, and that she should contact your friend to discuss details.  It’s not unusual for the maid of honour to not plan the shower (mine didn’t), and they can certainly work on it together.

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Is it possible to have two maids of honor?

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I agree two maid of honors is a great idea!

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

You could definitely have 2! I’ve seen several weddings that have a maid of honor and a matron  of honor… Are either of them married? That would easily solve it…. But, honestly, why not just have 2 maids of honor either way? I think the only way it would be weird is if you have 3 girls standing by you (2 maids of honor and 1 BM)… As long as you have more than that – I would go for both of them being Maid/Matron of Honor 🙂

Post # 8
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I’m having two maids of honor for my September wedding, and one of mine asked me to be one of her two maids of honor for her June wedding. I think it’s fine when family is involved (her sister is her other maid of honor) because you may want one of your best friends but don’t want to upset the family member. 

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

It’s not uncommon to have 2 – I think it’s a great solution to this.

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