- 5 years ago
- Wedding: August 2013
After I got engaged I asked my BFF to stand up for me. Three years later there has been no genuine interest in participating in any wedding planning. She refused to throw a shower for me citing she doesn’t know who my friends are, made fun of my engagement ring, and more recently referred to my fiance as a jackass as ge wouldn’t help her with a home renovation project. She also refused to buy a new dress for the wedding as she has one in her closet that should be ok.
Her and I had a blowout 2 weeks ago and it was long over due. She and my fiance have never been civil but for my sake he agreed to remain civil if she was in the wedding party. Now that she is not he is pushing for me to choose his SIL eventhough she renains as apathetic as my original Maid/Matron of Honor.
I just want to be happy. No drama. I am ok with losing a friendship over this as a friend would have not subjected me to barbs for years regarding ny ring, mate choice, or overall apathy.
Has anyone had to change up the wedding at the two month away mark?