- 2 years ago
- Wedding: October 2017
RobbieAndJuliahaha : THIS. Your proposal has absolutely nothing to do with her, it’s a private moment between you and your fiancé and if you both chose to share it with others, that is up to you. She cannot judge you for your decision.
Forget about her, push it away, and realize that she is manipulating you. It sounds like she’s jealous all the attention is on you and is lashing out at you. I don’t understand how you’ve been toxic to her, but understand that you’re going to feel her toxic energy and it’s going to seep into every corner of your life if you let this get to you, and that’s going to be more damaging than what she’s done to you.
A good former friend of mine had this very toxic energy and even went as far as to call me and complain at 3am (when I had to work at 8am the next day) about how I didn’t pick her to be a bridesmaid. This is not something that should happen to anyone, nor is it ok and this toxic energy isn’t good for anyone. Let her know that you understand she can’t be a part of your wedding, tell her you do not expect her to attend and focus on your upcoming marriage, that’s the important part.