(Closed) MOH dropped out of the wedding w/ 3 weeks to go

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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1177 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I would just counsel you not to go overboard with telling people she bailed on you. To me it sounds like there is something going on in her life that she’s not yet comfortable telling people about. As in, she’s seriously ill, or a family member is, or she’s pregnant, or she lost her job… there’s a lot of possibilities. Don’t set yourself up to feel like a jerk if you find out something like this down the road.

Post # 5
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602 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

@geekspice: I’m happy you are excited about the wedding and see that the stress is gone from you, but she may have something happening. If people ask just say that “she had an unforeseen event come up that you respect she is managing or taking care of”. It wont let her win, you dont lose as being seen as the bad guy especially if there is a family or personal emergency she is dealing with. 

 

 

 

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