(Closed) MOH HELP!

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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58 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

i’m so sorry for you. I can totally relate. My Maid/Matron of Honor hasn’t bought an airline ticket and hasn’t sent in her response card and it’s 3 weeks until the wedding. Forget helping with anything, she’s not done a thing. And now she’s saying she is only going to come to the wedding (no bachelorette party, no rehersal, no rehearsal dinner, NO RECEPTION). So when you say you’re very close to giving her the boot and tell her she can come as just a guest, I totally get you. Why do people get super excited about this and then space out? Again, I’m sorry you have to put up with this. It’s less stressful to have no Maid/Matron of Honor than to have one that gives you a headache.

Post # 4
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2891 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I think she is being very inconsiderate.  Maybe you should vent directly to her..at this point what can it hurt?  She might help you or she might no longer be your friend…would that be the end of the world?

Post # 5
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532 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

It sounds like she’s not owing up to the responsibility, after having months of no repsonsibility. Sorta lulled into a sense of maybe nothing is needed from her. 

It seems almost ridiculous that you might have to do this – but try to give her as much advance notice as possible, a date, time and place you want to meet up with her to do crafts. Try to meet with her at your place, so she can’t dag you into side projects or outings at her house/a third location. 

If she still can’t be bothered, perhaps ask one of your other bridesmaids to step up? 

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