- 7 years ago
- Wedding: July 2011
I am on the verge of flipping out on my Maid/Matron of Honor and asking her to just come to the wedding instead of being in it. I love her to death but I am so tired of her lack of everything with my wedding. She is my best friend and I’ve always known that she is pretty self centered but in the past I have always been able to tell her when she is going overboard and she takes a reality check.
She was so excited when I asked her to be my Maid/Matron of Honor in October and due to a lot of craziness in both of our lives we really didn’t get much wedding stuff done for a while. Now we have 3 months and it’s crunch time! My Fiance is military and we are getting stationed in TX and he has already moved because of his orders and I will go after the wedding. So, that basically means he’s not even here to help me with everything. All of my other BM’s live anywhere from 2-5 hours away…..so my Maid/Matron of Honor is all I really have here. Everytime I ask her to help me with something she always has something more important to do (including a weekend booty call). I have done so much for her over the years and never asked anything in return….but I seriously get blown off for a guy she’s messing around with, when she knows how much I have to do and how stressed I am!?!?! Even yesterday she told me to come over and we’d finish up the invitations that really need to be in the mail this week…..and I ended up fixing her sprinkler and garden in front of her house that she distroyed! I am a bit of a pushover and try to help my friends but I’m so disguested that with everything I do for her she can’t set herself aside for a while and help me for once. I just want to scream at her!! It’s to the point that I seriously don’t want her in our wedding anymore because I don’t really feel she is the friend I thought she was. I have no idea what to do with 3 months left til the wedding! AHHHHHHH!