(Closed) MOH Help

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Who should I choose?
    Sister #1 : (5 votes)
    38 %
    Sister #2 : (0 votes)
    Friend #1 : (3 votes)
    23 %
    Friend #2 : (5 votes)
    38 %
  • Post # 3
    182 posts
    Blushing bee

    I’m no help because I was in the same position. I decided not to choose one. I referred to my girls as my “maids of honor” and they did everything together as equals. It helped me have way less drama. 

    Post # 4
    4040 posts
    Honey bee

    @sniques:  Sister #1 – Matron of Honor and Friend #1 – Maid of Honor (you said she’s getting married next year – I’m assuming after you?). If not, have 2 Matron’s of Honor.


    Post # 5
    181 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    How about foregoing to Maid/Matron of Honor and just call them ALL of them your “ladies of honor”. There is nothing that says you HAVE to pick.

    Post # 6
    957 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    @sniques:  My sister was my matron of honor until she got preggers. She is due two weeks before the wedding and won’t even be at my wedding. My other sister and BMs are taking over but I am just leaving the title out of it.

    Can you pick both sisters? Matron and Maid of honor?

    Post # 7
    442 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2013 - Tybee Island, GA

    You said it yourself in your post bee, Friend #2 is your go to girl. && you wrote the most about her! lol


    You’re going to need your go-to-girl as part of your wedding.


    -Good Luck


    Post # 8
    1193 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    I get your situation. My Maid/Matron of Honor was in a similarly sticky one and so she just made nobody Maid/Matron of Honor, which I think worked out for the best. That way nobody’s feelings were hurt. Or, if it’s important to your family that it be one of your sisters you can do what my sisters did and each do it for each other. So, since you’re Maid/Matron of Honor for Sister 1 then Sister 2 would be Maid/Matron of Honor for you and Sister 1 would be Maid/Matron of Honor for Sister 2. Just some ideas.

    Post # 10
    1197 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    I was in a similar situation and chose to go with no Maid/Matron of Honor.  but its completely up to you!

    Post # 11
    1003 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2014

    I don’t know how your family is but mine would take it kind of as a snub if a family member wasn’t Maid/Matron of Honor.

    Post # 12
    159 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    There’s no rule that says you have to have an Maid/Matron of Honor so don’t.  Treat them all equally.

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