- 8 years ago
I’m Maid/Matron of Honor for my BFF and would love some advice. My bridie is extremely low key and not only asks next to nothing of me and of the other BMs, but outright refuses to be fussed over. Her groom’s aunt is hosting the shower and the bride has nixed a bachelorette party, so aside from hosting a bridesmaid get together and participating in the actual wedding my maidly duties are really limited. (Where’s the problem, right?) Thus far, my biggest responsibility has been running interference for the people pleasing bride up against pushy family and friends.
My question to you bees is: What can I do for her that would be helpful but not overbearing as the wedding approaches? She would never ask for anything, especially since I’m out of town, so I’m hoping some of you experienced brides can point me in the right direction!