(Closed) MOH – indispensable?

posted 6 years ago in Flowers
Post # 3
Member
2616 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

u dont need to give someone the title of moh. if you have bridesmaids just let them all help you.only problem  is bridal shower and bachlorete party are moh duties.

Post # 4
Member
807 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

You don’t need a Maid/Matron of Honor. Like PP mentioned, the bridal shower and bachelorette party are typically Maid/Matron of Honor duties–but that doesn’t mean your bridesmaids can’t all just share in the planning (I’ve been in a wedding where this was the case and it all worked out just fine).

Post # 5
Member
9053 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

@bellasperanza:  I don’t think it’s impossible to go ahead without. Just be careful that one doesnt become a defacto moh.  If you use the same girl to stand closest to you in the ceremony, sign your register, sit beside you at dinner and give a speech… That’s just getting someone to be your moh without the honor title, which in my mind is a little unfair. But if you spread out the duties and “specialness” equally then it’s fine. 

Post # 6
Member
200 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I’m not having a Maid/Matron of Honor either.  My two sister are my BMs… I didn’t want to pick one between the two.  

Post # 7
Member
6742 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

I’m not sure I’m picking a Maid/Matron of Honor either.  I have 3 very close friends and it would be hard to pick one over the other from them. 

The topic ‘MOH – indispensable?’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors