Post # 1
I know that most girls have their BBF but.. I really don’t.
I have several special friends that I already asked them to be my bridesmaids, but no one who I feel to name my “made of honor”.
what do you guys think are the disadvantages of not having one?
Is it really indispensable?
ps: I have a beautiful mama that I know will help me tons and will always be there for me, so she’s my biggest support.
Post # 3
u dont need to give someone the title of moh. if you have bridesmaids just let them all help you.only problem is bridal shower and bachlorete party are moh duties.
Post # 4
You don’t need a Maid/Matron of Honor. Like PP mentioned, the bridal shower and bachelorette party are typically Maid/Matron of Honor duties–but that doesn’t mean your bridesmaids can’t all just share in the planning (I’ve been in a wedding where this was the case and it all worked out just fine).
Post # 5
@bellasperanza: I don’t think it’s impossible to go ahead without. Just be careful that one doesnt become a defacto moh. If you use the same girl to stand closest to you in the ceremony, sign your register, sit beside you at dinner and give a speech… That’s just getting someone to be your moh without the honor title, which in my mind is a little unfair. But if you spread out the duties and “specialness” equally then it’s fine.
Post # 6
I’m not having a Maid/Matron of Honor either. My two sister are my BMs… I didn’t want to pick one between the two.
Post # 7
I’m not sure I’m picking a Maid/Matron of Honor either. I have 3 very close friends and it would be hard to pick one over the other from them.