Member- Kissed_by_lightning
- 7 years ago
- Wedding: August 2014
@bridetobethree: God she is horrible, 1st of all I am so so sorry that happened to you … even more sorry that she implyed your lieing on of the biggest fears after that happens to a person is ppl not beleiving you she sounds terrible
I think 1st of all, she has no ground to be upset with you even have infact forgiven him (clearly on some level you have b.c. you go to family events and don’t make a big deal about him being there you understand he can’t wrap his head around what he did … just the same you should NOT HAVE HIM AT YOUR WEDDING you don’t need such painful memorys there) you are not being a bridizall or a bitch you have proven over and over you understand what he did and why b.c. you spend time in a room with him … if you didn’t you couldn’t stomch him at all … Good on you for being the bigger person I know i would have battled to go to a family event at all
Your wedding is sposta be happy, you should not have to have someone who hurt you so profoundly be there weather he ment to or not ontop of that alot fo the time people have someone watch family memebers for such events i sure other ppl in the familyhave been married with out him being there
She was pure nastyness …. I believe she is very self centered also i think she was trying to ruin your day on some level she likely is jealous … and rude to be like that to you
