- 8 years ago
- Wedding: September 2013
That’s horrible! Dump her. She is being horrible and does not deserve your friendship.
And yes, it hurts terribly that she insulted my mother publicly. I wish she could have come to me if she had issues with the weekend. Or just kept her mouth shut. Reading people’s replies to her was humiliating, seeing people write back, “Get out of there while you can!” “Sure sounds like a terrible time” Etc etc.
I’m thinking more and more to tell her sooner than later, having her in my wedding party at all seems like it’s less and less of a good idea, because it will remind me of reading those terrible twitter things.
Drop her. What a horrible person, and not a friend at all. It sounds like she thinks she is better than you, your friends, and your family now that she works in social media. I would remove her from the wedding altogether, and not look back.
Drop her. That simple. Thats not something you can overlook.
OMG! She is not your friend. Forget demoting her eliminate her. Tell what she did was very hurtful and you can’t just act like it didn’t happen and that you have decided you don’tneed her as a maid of honor if thats how she feels. She seems to fancy herself too important like everyone was beneath her. You deserve better than that on your wedding day. It’s your day to shine and for everyone who loves you to come out and share in your joy.
I too am entitled to my feelings…and I feel that you suck as a friend. Consider yourself out of the wedding and out of my life.”
Ugh she sounds like a nightmare.
I’d drop her like a hot potato. If this is how she is at this stage of the planning, I doubt she would be any help or particularly supportive during the wedding.
And of course something like this appeared on her twitter, “On this trip to try gowns on.” ‘This trip’. Sigh. That’s what my weekend was to her. Not a celebration in the slightest. Not a way for her to meet the girls who are special to me, and to take her place as the most special woman of honor in my life. I suppose that time is long over.
The more I think about this situation from reading the comments, the more I realize all of her little insults that I disregarded for the sake of our friendship. All the little times she put down my Fiance that I laughed off, all the times that she put down things that I said or did, that she then suddenly loved once her own boyfriend endorsed them. It’s a sad thing to realize, but I think it’s for the best to move on from this relationship. There will always be the fun college memories, and that will be that.
if anyone insulted my mother like that, we would not be friends anymore. from your last post, it seems you’re coming around about this freindship being over. please kick her out of your wedding party and tell her she’s not invited to the wedding. she does not deserve to be there.
I’d curb her. That’s amazingly disrespectful and brazenly rude.
Wow–tell her now, kick her out and be done with it. Get rid of her, the stress and the worry.
Id also be upset if i were your matron of honor doing most of the work and that b**** was just sitting there complaining WHILE she shared the “honor” title with me. Nope. Id have it out with her even if you didnt.
Wow what a biotch.
Honestly, you need to just let her go because what she did is unforgiveable. It would have been different if she at least tried to apologize but for her to think she did nothing wrong and disrespect you and your mother like that is just horrible.
You should just tell her you think it be best if she isn’t part of your bridal party anymore and tell her don’t even bother attending as a guest because you rather give her spot to your dog.
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