(Closed) MoH insulted my wedding, friends, and my MOTHER behind my back… Help!

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 17
8682 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

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@volesnug:  As a grown woman you must know that people grow and change, right? Thats what happened here and she is NOT your friend and definitely NOT A BEST FRIEND. I know it may hurt but doesnt it hurt more that she insulted your mother? I wouldnt tolerate her behavior. I wouldnt want an apology. The mere fact that she took the time to write all of those things is enough for me. I am not desperate for any friends.

Post # 18
3879 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

That’s horrible! Dump her. She is being horrible and does not deserve your friendship.

Post # 20
129 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

Drop her. What a horrible person, and not a friend at all. It sounds like she thinks she is better than you, your friends, and your family now that she works in social media. I would remove her from the wedding altogether, and not look back.  

Post # 21
1572 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

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@seabunny:  +1.

That sounds like no friend. Certainly nobody that should be invited to the wedding! Blocking you from contacting her because you tell her you are upset? NEXT!! You don’t need people in your life like that.

Post # 22
563 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

Drop her. That simple. Thats not something you can overlook.

Post # 23
191 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

OMG! She is not your friend. Forget demoting her eliminate her. Tell what she did was very hurtful and you can’t just act like it didn’t happen and that you have decided you don’tneed her as a maid of honor if thats how she feels. She seems to fancy herself too important like everyone was beneath her. You deserve better than that on your wedding day. It’s your day to shine and for everyone who loves you to come out and share in your joy. 

Post # 24
1850 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

“Dear Not-a-true-Friend,

I too am entitled to my feelings…and I feel that you suck as a friend. Consider yourself out of the wedding and out of my life.”

Ugh she sounds like a nightmare.


Post # 25
2253 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I’d drop her like a hot potato. If this is how she is at this stage of the planning, I doubt she would be any help or particularly supportive during the wedding. 

Post # 26
433 posts
Helper bee


That is so unbelievably rude.  I’d kick her out of the wedding and probably wouldn’t even invite her.  Why would you even want a friend like that?  Who cares how long you’ve known each other, she’s obviously grown into a mean, miserable adult.

Post # 28
2512 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

if anyone insulted my mother like that, we would not be friends anymore. from your last post, it seems you’re coming around about this freindship being over. please kick her out of your wedding party and tell her she’s not invited to the wedding. she does not deserve to be there.

Post # 29
748 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I’d curb her. That’s amazingly disrespectful and brazenly rude.

Post # 30
2552 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Wow–tell her now, kick her out and be done with it. Get rid of her, the stress and the worry.

Id also be upset if i were your matron of honor doing most of the work and that b**** was just sitting there complaining WHILE she shared the “honor” title with me. Nope. Id have it out with her even if you didnt.

Post # 31
265 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Wow what a biotch.

Honestly, you need to just let her go because what she did is unforgiveable. It would have been different if she at least tried to apologize but for her to think she did nothing wrong and disrespect you and your mother like that is just horrible. 

You should just tell her you think it be best if she isn’t part of your bridal party anymore and tell her don’t even bother attending as a guest because you rather give her spot to your dog.

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