(Closed) MOH invited HER friend to MY wedding!!

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2008 - Winery in the Gold Country

If this were me, I would definitely be happy to have her at my wedding. You mentioned that this girl helped plan your bachelorette—that’s a huge undertaking and it was really nice of her to do that. 

It sounds like she’s helping your Maid/Matron of Honor out a lot for your wedding, I’d try to spare the room for this girl. She seems to be doing a lot for you, even though you aren’t close.

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@penguin: I have to say I agree.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Unless there is a really blatent reason you do not want this person at your wedding, I would just consider this to be your MOHs plus one, if she isn’t bringing a boyfriend or husband. I probably wouldn’t necessarilly put her to work, unless your Maid/Matron of Honor tells you that she wants to help out. Just consider this a thank you gift to your Maid/Matron of Honor for being so great.

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2008 - Winery in the Gold Country

Like SandyThePoet mentioned, think of it as a gift to your Maid/Matron of Honor instead of just a random girl at your wedding 🙂

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Honestly if I went to and helped at someones Bachelorette party I would assume I was going to the wedding as well. I think there is sort of a rule if people go to pre-wedding parties they come to the wedding as well.

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

That’s just wrong.  But if you said the girl could help plan the bachelorette party and she is going to be attending that event its rude to not have her at the wedding.  You only invite people to the Bachelorette party whom are going to the wedding too.  I think you could certainly have a great chance to add her to help with the wedding go for it.  Just tell the MOH not to invite anyone else. 

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