(Closed) MOH is driving me nuts!

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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1398 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

This is what you’re mad about? That this girl was nice to your fiance’s family? Why do you put it like she’s picking sides? I think she probably just thinks its proper for her to be as nice as possible to her friends new family. My sister is my Maid/Matron of Honor and I haven’t introduced her to my in laws but I certainly wouldn’t be mad if she was being overly nice to them…

Post # 4
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1828 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Is it possible that she is just being nice? I don’t think that being nice to your fiance’s mother means that she won’t be there to support you on your day. Honestly, it seems like you are making a big deal out of nothing. 

Do you not have a good relationship with your in-laws? Are you maybe jealous that your Mother-In-Law and your Maid/Matron of Honor get along well? This is all just conjecture…I just can’t see any other reason why you would care that your Maid/Matron of Honor is friendly to the people involved in the wedding.

Post # 5
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4385 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I think you are majorly overreacting. Majorly. Are you jealous because your FI’s family likes her? Why would that make you jealous?

Post # 6
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981 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

At the end of the day, when your Future Mother-In-Law goes home and says “So-and-so was such a nice girl!” it only reflects positively on you.  It sounds like you distrust her though… Did something happen in the past that makes you think she has ulterior motives?

Post # 8
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2714 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Be on your side? Were you arguing with your in-laws about something?

I’m confused… Isn’t this a good thing that they get along? My Maid/Matron of Honor has never met my FI’s parents, but my FI’s best man has met my parents a few times and even went to visit them once when we weren’t around. I thought it was really sweet that he did that and I love that FI’s best friend gets along so wonderfully with my parents!!

Post # 9
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1828 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Even if she is sucking up, I still don’t see why its a bad thing. She wants the Mother-In-Law to like her. Weird, maybe? But really, why do you care?

Post # 11
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2742 posts
Sugar bee

Um, okay, well, are you guys surprised at the OP? Seriously, I honestly never know when to take you serious because some of your threads *smh*

Post # 12
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4385 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

@TG20: Sorry, but you sound ridiculous and paranoid right now. You need to relax!

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

@TG20: Do you have a reason to be suspicious though? I mean really, do you think she’s going to try and steal them all from you? What motive could she possibly have? I think you’re looking for something thats not there.

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