(Closed) MOH is going crazy!!

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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84 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

It seems like she’s only going to get worse if you don’t say anything to her. If you continue to let her control things, why would she stop?

Post # 5
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84 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@mahkittahkakes:  Yeah, I could only imagine how she’s going to act if you tell her to stop trying to control things. 

 

Just make sure she doesn’t control anything you really care about. While you don’t want a fight, it is still your wedding. And your happiness is more important than hers when it’s about your own wedding day.

 

Post # 7
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75 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@mahkittahkakes:  K, I’m going to give you a bit of tough love….. get your backbone in order and take control back!

 

I know you don’t like confrontation and you don’t even need to be confrontational but you need to take back what’s yours. If she is a true friend she will understand when you tell her that you love all she is doing for you but to also understand that your input is still important. 

 

I just hate when people get their way simply because they throw a hissy fit, it only encourages MORE hissy fits!

Post # 9
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75 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@mahkittahkakes:  You really do, this is a time you will not get back. You should be enjoying every bit that you possibly can. You can do it!! I have faith in you lol

 

Keep us posted!

Post # 10
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131 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

That’s crazy. She is acting like it is her wedding. You need to go out and have dinner or lunch or grab a cup of coffee and talk this over. You need to lay down the rules and say everything from the bottom of your heart. If she were your true Maid/Matron of Honor, she would understand and change.

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