(Closed) MOH is MIA (long but desperate)

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
3461 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Write her a letter (handwritten).

Post # 4
62 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

 I would have to say that at 7 months after the breakup she should be getting over it now. Even if she wasn’t yet that isn’t at all acceptable for her to ignore you and basically punish you in a way because you have what she wants.

  Does she live close enough that you can swing by one day? Obviously you are going to need to talk about and see what her deal is. If she doesn’t want to be in the wedding anymore she needs to let you know and vice versa. I know I would be resentful for sure if my Maid/Matron of Honor wasn’t around for all the planning and it would be awkward when the wedding came if she never stepped up.


Post # 5
1056 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

She’s having a really hard time.  You need to try and arrange a time to really sit and talk if you aren’t too far from each other.  The other thing is really make sure she won’t flake on you come time of the wedding, if she’s not answering you when you call that’s a red flag.  I couldn’t imagine what pain she’s in so being around you is probably really hard if she was first dreaming of doing everything with you to plan together. 

Tell her that you need her and reassure her that you want her there.  Pray all works out.

The topic ‘MOH is MIA (long but desperate)’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors