MOH issue

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
1049 posts
Bumble bee

I’ve seen it before. My friend chose someone to be her MOH because she was her MOH and I have a sister so she asked me if I was OK with being a BM and not a MOH. I was just happy to stand by her side and I didnt need the MOH title. Maybe ask your other friend if she minds? Or have both. If one is married you can have a maid and matron of honor.

Post # 3
6935 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

I think people get too hung up on the titles. I’d ask the second girl to just chill and remind her that there’s only a  bunch of extra work that comes with the MoH title, and it’s not a competition or any reflection on how much you value her as a friend.

Post # 4
561 posts
Busy bee

My bestfriend had 2 of us as MOH. It was hard because neither of us lived in town. As long as they communicate you will be ok.

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